Honor the Cherokee Woman You Once Were
“Your past self is not your shadow. She is your storyteller - and she deserves to be honored.”
There’s a sacred quiet that settles over Cherokee land in winter - a season of storytelling, slow fires, and remembering. My grandmother used to say, “This is the time when the old stories walk close to the heart.” And, dear one, there is a story walking close to yours right now.
Because before you can rise into the woman you are becoming… You must first honor the woman you once were.
Not tolerate her.
Not critique her.
Not rush her out the back door of memory.
Honor her.
Fully. Tenderly. Truthfully.
This is legacy work.
This is Cherokee work.
This is woman’s work.
Why Does Honoring Your Past Self Matter?
All healing begins with remembering.
In Cherokee tradition, winter is the season we turn inward and sit with our stories - not to relive pain, but to retrieve wisdom. When you honor the woman you once were, you are doing far more than reminiscing. You are:
Reclaiming strength you forgot you carried
Naming the truth of your journey
Returning compassion to the younger parts of you
Bringing coherence to your heart, your mind, and your legacy
Every season of your life - every mistake, every miracle, every midnight wrestling match - built the spiritual authority you carry today.
And your ideal client, the woman reading this from her own quiet place, needs to know this truth:
Your past self is not a liability. She is an ancestor.
And ancestors deserve honor.
What Stories Need to Be Honored Today?
Ask yourself gently:
What version of me tried her very best with what she had?
What woman in my past carried burdens I now understand were too heavy?
What choices were made from survival—not from shame?
What prayers did she whisper that I am now living the answers to?
In Cherokee winter teaching, we don’t shame the past.
We sit with it, like we sit beside the fire - warm hands, listening heart.
Because when you honor where you’ve been, you clear the path for where you’re going.
Healing is remembering.
Legacy is recording.
Wisdom is rising.
What Happens When You Finally Honor Her?
Beautiful things, dear one.
A softening.
A settling.
A returning of breath.
Honoring your past self creates a kind of inner spaciousness - a calm strength - that becomes the foundation of your legacy. When you honor her:
Your decisions become clearer
Your boundaries become stronger
Your relationships become kinder
Your spiritual intuition becomes sharper
Your future feels less like pressure and more like promise
This is the heart of my HER Life Legacy™ work:
Women cannot rise until they honor what shaped them.
A Cherokee-Inspired Reflection Prompt
Place this question near a candle or fire and breathe deeply:
Which version of me - child, mother, fighter, achiever, survivor - needs to be invited back to the circle with honor?
Write her a message.
Tell her what you now know.
Bless her for carrying you this far.
Legacy Moment (Spiritual + Emotional Takeaway)
As the fire burns low and winter holds the world still, let your heart soften toward the woman you once were. Honor opens the doorway to healing. Healing opens the doorway to rising. And rising, dear one, is the sacred birthright of every Cherokee daughter and every woman called into her golden chapter.
You are not starting over.
You are starting from wisdom.
And wisdom is a legacy all its own.
Invitation to Step Into Your Own Legacy Work
If this stirred something in you - if you felt a remembering, or a longing, or a gentle ache - that’s your spirit asking for deeper work.
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You don’t have to walk this journey alone.
I’m here, and I’m honored to walk beside you.
